Sunday, January 08, 2006

Car Music

I don’t know about you but I have noticed that seemingly trivial things have the uncanny knack of spreading warmth and elation within oneself if significant to them. If you are at a loss as to what I am talking about, I think you could refer to a list of these type of things as part of a single email chain, that must have been forwarded around the world starting in 1997 that include the likes of taking a hot shower, eating chocolate and if I remember right, taking a hot shower while eating chocolate or maybe the other way around, I cant be sure. But what I mean to say is that, in truth such things certainly have the power to heal and perhaps evoke feelings of enjoyment and calm in a sorrowful but usually joyous heart.

I will relate to you one such incident. I usually like to listen to the radio when I am driving. I guess I just like the music they play on the one particular station. The habit with me is that if the radio is playing one of my favorite songs, then I just wait in the car till the song is finished and then I get out. Anyway my mum and I were on the way back from a trip to the mall and our favorite song started to play as we entered the garage. I had been telling her how much I missed Madras, and was asking her about plans for the summer already. We were listening to the same tamil movie songs tape we had been listening to for the last two years. I guess I can say with some certainty that these songs are our brief connection to Madras. I had parked by then and I glanced toward my mum. She usually just gets out of the car and heads toward home. But this time she said that she wanted to wait till the song finished! So we just sat in the car and listened to the song. No amateurish crooning from either of us, just the music. And I felt a bond between us. It just felt really nice, that she wanted to just spend some time sitting and listening to some music with me. I also felt that this had some connection to Madras and probably how both of us longed for it. Then I was also led to believe that the music had soemthing to do with it and it was a good feeling. I just thought this would be nice to share. Any similar stories welcome…we can call it senti hour or something. On the same note, I miss Madras. I can’t wait for the summer when I can see everyone again.

15 Comments:

At 2:50 PM, Blogger Div said...

Really nice post. I guess music's just all over...its so universal...something u dont need to explain. Something very similar happened when i last came to kenya...4 yrs back. My brother was there too... and we were both listening to 'the beatles' and 'simon and garfunkel'... My dad was watching tv, n my mom was in the kitchen... after abt 5 mins of music... my dad walked into the room n pulled a chair...n started talkin abt his fave beatles song... n my mom came in also... n was listening...n after a while, everyone fell silent...just listening. There was magic in that moment. Things like that rarely happen...damn.

 
At 6:19 PM, Blogger tribanga said...

hey nice anecdote..defenitely similar to mine...

i guess since things like this happen so infrequently, you remember them for always...

awwww!!!

 
At 6:43 PM, Blogger tsb said...

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At 6:45 PM, Blogger tsb said...

what you guys said abt music can never happen in my family. i like dabankuthu songs, my father likes sivaji and mgr day's songs and my mother likes only bhajans.
but a similar thing like what you explained above happened when i was watching a cricket match, while tendlkar was batting. me and my brother were discussing something and then my father came and joined the discussion. all this time, my mother was just standing there listening...

 
At 9:50 PM, Blogger tribanga said...

tsb is revealing his softer side...awwww!!
hehe, yeah i guess it is different with different people, had it been my dad in the car, he would not even have noticed the music was playing unless it was some carnatic music that he could follow!

keep the anecdotes coming!

 
At 10:34 PM, Blogger tsb said...

my softer side?
you were the ones who started talking abt random music convos.
see...cricket is cool.
and no softer sides in cricket.
and wtf am i blabbering about?

 
At 8:51 AM, Blogger antickpix said...

tsb -

the abdomen guard begs to differ

 
At 9:50 AM, Blogger tribanga said...

varun, we want a story, as well as witty comments!

 
At 3:17 PM, Blogger Kartik said...

expecting story from varun? lol

varun, you should post some of that jap movie review on here- think that'll satisfy here till deluge doth come.

 
At 8:32 AM, Blogger Maharaj Nilesh ki jai ho! said...

nice feeling!! c'mon anu..!!!
happiness all around.....

 
At 1:06 PM, Blogger Kartik said...

OK chalo baccho Manasi's posted something new on her blog - time for you to post something Anu.

LOL that didn't make sense - I just tie both your blogs together.

Word verification = wuklk

Sounds like a Smurf threw up.

 
At 10:02 PM, Blogger Ram said...

Very nice ... but what was the song u were listening to?
I kinda got that feeling yesterday when we sat down in the pooja .. bro mom dad n me, and my dad did pooja and we were just mumbling prayers ... was wondering when THAT was gonna happen again!!
and whats mom saying about summer?!! :)

 
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At 9:45 PM, Blogger tribanga said...

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At 8:15 AM, Blogger tribanga said...

i will try and put something up soon..

 

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